Posts

Showing posts from June, 2025

There Is No Such Thing As Right Or Wrong

 I am a Techno Geek who spends a lot of time in what some people call the "Wu Wu" world. I am a huge believer that Science and Technology can be used as Positive tools to fix many of the problems in this world. I also am a huge believer that our current way of Spirituality, Religion, is completely broken, and we have outgrown it, and that Science can give us better ways of seeing the Spiritual in our Universe. And is doing so. And, over the years, I have heard the phrase that is the title of this piece, "There is no such thing as right or wrong" many times. I was having a discussion earlier with someone, a very enjoyable discussion over all, and this person said that. I was in listening mode for the most part and as they went on and talked about how it worked in their life I just took it all in. And I was really surprised by how this, otherwise very intelligent, person was disconnected from the reality of the world around us. As an intellectual exercise there is not...

Birthdays and Other Such Celebrations

 So. I am "celebrating" another complete journey of the Earth Around the Sun. AKA another year of life. AKA a Birthday. 62 years old. Like most people I really enjoyed birthdays a a child. They were fun with the gifts, cakes, and other foods along with we were celebrating ME. And, like most people, as I got older birthdays lost their luster. I just stopped caring about them entirely. I am not anti birthday like an older sister of mine. I just don't think that they are important. Yeah. I was born. As we all were. And yeah, I am going to die someday. As we all are. What I find important is what I do in my life between those two. The dash between the dates on the obit or the headstone. Just as I enjoyed my birthday as a child I liked all the other holidays as well. Memorial Day. I did not yet understand the significance of this holiday. Just that there was parades and cook outs. I liked all that. The 4th of July was just fun. The fire works. The parade. The small, usually ch...

How We Remember People

 Just recently I came face to face with my own mortality. I was very sick and the Doctor who fixed me said that if I had waited much longer then they might not have been able to help me. It was that close. Kinda got me looking at things again. And remembering some things. Some years ago a cousin of mine passed away. He was young, mid fifties, and it was not expected. One of my Aunt's had been complaining about him for years. Not real bad, just things that she felt were places where he was not living up to who he could have been and was, in her opinion, falling short. Not long after myself, my Mum, and my Aunt, were traveling and hit a store for things. As we were shopping she started talking about my cousin. And her whole tone had shifted. He was now a Saint who could do no wrong. As I was listening to her I was also remembering the way she spoke about him before. And I realized that neither of these people she talked about was the real person. Both of them were colored by her perc...

"I Cannot Be A Nazi Because ..."

Image
  I have a sibling that is a huge Trump Supporter. And before Trump they were already really unhinged on the subject of Politics. Really good person, except when disagreed with about politics. Then would absolutely lose their ever lovin' mind. Because of the total inability to have a conversation instead of an emotionally fueled tirade a lot of family members cut them off on social media and limited contact. Was/Is very distressing. And, in order for some things to make sense later on, I normally do not make this distinction at all, this sibling and I share a Father. We have different Mother's. I know their Mother and have a good relationship with her. And, to me, Family is Family. So, to me, a sibling is a sibling and I do not do the half shit. I just needed to put this out there for clarity on a later point. A little while ago I wrote a piece about the "election" of Trump to a second term called " America's Post Mortem" which you can read as I have li...